Connections

I dont try ,so hard to connect I know, we are already connected. Each one of them who feels for me I can feel their love. Each one of them who sees through me Knows I have touched their soul. Each one of them who knows what I am trying to make Just have wishes … Continue reading Connections

Hi friends

Hi friends, I want to request all my readers and blogger friends to please write a review about my writings , poems or books here in comment . Just to know how my writings connect to you , what is that you like about it , any suggestions or additions . A simple appreciation or … Continue reading Hi friends

My Journal 70. Creative expressions

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A few days before i shared a post on my Fb wall of contemporary sculpture artist, it was an amazing collection of creativity .Where a complex sculpture structure was very simply beautifully , artistically achieved with using plain structure of rods and physics that gave it a feel of moving sculpture adding life to space … Continue reading My Journal 70. Creative expressions

My Journal 67. About Writing

Hi friends today I received the paperback copies of one of my book . It was a wonderful feeling to actually hold it for  all that I have put in so much into.  Its not about the efforts or time . The reason , dedication ,writing about my journey ,lessons , challenges and solutions . … Continue reading My Journal 67. About Writing

Hi friends Paperback Revised Books

Hi friends I am Sharing paperback links to my books, revised new books: Self help , Journal books : collection of journal and poems Life Just As It is -( Self Awareness , Self Confidence , Motivation) Relations and Influence – (Social Science , social relations and influences) Life and Meaning – (Spirituality, Self Realization … Continue reading Hi friends Paperback Revised Books

Hi friends My Ebooks Revised

I have been revising and redesigning my books with more content and reorganizing them for their varied topics. Self help , Journal books : collection of journal and poems Life Just As It is -( Self Awareness , Self Confidence , Motivation) Relations and Influence - (Social Science , social relations and influences) Life and … Continue reading Hi friends My Ebooks Revised

The Big Story

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The Big Story Even after so many versesSo many storiesThoughts unendingQuestions ponderingStill there's a feelingnot so satisfying.As if its not hit the right cordSomething is still missing.Something still withinWaiting for the right words to frame inTill then i keep wanderingBut nothing brings me that redemptionTill that story in me is unheardI want to speak of … Continue reading The Big Story

My Journal 66. Attitude , Pride and Ego

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We live in a society where conforming to others opinions , thoughts or ways is seen as something really positive or good. This need not be always right just to fit in to the bracket of " goodness" of definition of another we put up with everything and if one doesn't or is very clear … Continue reading My Journal 66. Attitude , Pride and Ego

Perfect

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There are rules to createthat perfect masterpiece.Those perfect strokes and shadings.Creativity and expressions just flowthey are reflection of the soul.Not crafted with perfectionThe beauty lies in their imperfection.To be able to connect to realityNot a perfect piece, But a part of imagination .That is me.Perfect is goodIs worthy.Imperfection is trueJust how i want it to … Continue reading Perfect

My Journal 63. Start with a clean slate

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At certain times in our lives when we are the start of something very new or we have to begin all over again , we have to be ready to start with a clean slate. To not to carry burdens of our past wrongs , stern approach , not carry regrets or take the blame … Continue reading My Journal 63. Start with a clean slate

Chaos

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I dont feel like writingwith so much chaos around.With challenges on personal ground.So much of confusionA fear of the unknown.No answers to problems blown. I don't know me writingnow does it make a difference.A thought always back of my headWhenever i sit to write. I just write with a hopeIt is to fool my hearteverything … Continue reading Chaos

My Journal 61. Generalized

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A very common thing followed is bracketing everything or generalizing opinions based on gender , positions , professions , relations, culture , beliefs . Which is very not right, though these are widely accepted and forms part of our back thinking too. There is a kind of following to certain professions , certain characteristics or … Continue reading My Journal 61. Generalized

Why I write

I dont write for information I dont write for knowledge I dont write for advise or counsel All of that is much available on the web I write for connection I write to spark I write to give words to all that around I write seeing for you and me I write because it is … Continue reading Why I write

My Journal 60 . Nullifying

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Remember those times from childhood when you go to complain to teacher or parent about another , and after sometimes the other comes up with a claim you were the one who actually made it happen or are lying about the incident and your complaint is nullified . It becomes difficult to prove how the … Continue reading My Journal 60 . Nullifying

My Journal 59. Good to be Ok

My writing are sometimes ok , sometimes good . This is my own evaluation of my work as I relook . Yes the intention and thought behind each is clear, the difference is in the rendering depending on conditions differ. But one thing for sure i like the ok ones equally to the good ones … Continue reading My Journal 59. Good to be Ok

My Journal 58. Power of positivity

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Do not underestimate the power of positivity in current times . This power in you has the strength to make miracles for self and others around . I believe in this power of positivity, though it may be a part of pseudoscience. Positivity can make great miracles, especially positivity radiated by the community at large, … Continue reading My Journal 58. Power of positivity

Not Just Expressing

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Not Just Expressing Its not just expressing.It may look that simple ,very natural and easy,but very awarechosen with carebuild with probequestions to explore . Sometimes writing seeing the self inSometimes seeing for others have been.They speak more than what they seemdepends on the depth you can swim.They can be your friendas much as they are … Continue reading Not Just Expressing

My Journal 46. Take a break and find your balance

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Hi dear friends, I have been busy blogging and editing for my books regularly . I admit i love writing its the most important part of my life and keeps my days going , but no matter how much i love it , i have decided to take breaks in between . Where i get … Continue reading My Journal 46. Take a break and find your balance

My Journal 45. We get what We put up with

Most of the time we realize what we get is what we put up with. This does not apply to all situations in our life , but to the ones we are in control of or can take control with our will and courage .Those that are in the power of our choices and decisions … Continue reading My Journal 45. We get what We put up with

My Journal 44. Some are never going to like you

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Some people are never going to like you no matter what you do or things and times change . That's going to remain exactly like that and there is no point trying so hard to get them to like you or convince them . The reason being there exists no proper reason which they themselves … Continue reading My Journal 44. Some are never going to like you

My Journal 42. True Calling

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I know exactly what it means it took me really long to find ways ,to acknowledge ,to believe and pursue it . I am not saying I exactly knew what it was , until i went through all ways that life put me through i did what best i could do in those times trying … Continue reading My Journal 42. True Calling

My Journal 41. To be a part or not

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The freedom to do what one wants to , intend to , or choose not to be part of what feels wrong looses it value in the process we decide to be part of these groups , groups that control and influence our choices , decisions or think for us . Unwillingly , silently we … Continue reading My Journal 41. To be a part or not

My Journal 40. Reaching Out

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Hi friends this is in relation to recent episodes of my life where i was venturing into books . I have no background or even basic knowledge about it being from a technical background , i just knew to write and am passionate about it and blog was best for me as i knew how … Continue reading My Journal 40. Reaching Out

Big Skills 9. Creativity

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Creativity is in choosing life to live the way you want creating experiences . It is the ability to express those emotions , ideas , topics in ways that are different being able to present them through a different angle and details.It is our inbuilt tendency to work on solutions generated through our unique ways … Continue reading Big Skills 9. Creativity

My Journal 37 . Changing People

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Many a times we want to change people around us especially our dear ones to see for their betterment , happiness and success. Sometimes to make relations work , to get better out of a relation, for them to have better relations . This isn't easy because not everybody is willing to change, nor is … Continue reading My Journal 37 . Changing People

My Journal 35. “I am ok with this”

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Hi friends , if one is kind of a person who learns from everybody , who is flexible ,willing for change . But that gives way to lot of opinions how and what to do , unsolicited advise . There are many people out there who think they know everything about everything , and hold … Continue reading My Journal 35. “I am ok with this”

My Journal 34. Karma

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Many talk about one thing is that how karma will get back or how it serves right what one deserves. I don't know how the Karma works or what it is but what i have read and researched about and it looks . We should be taking responsibility for our actions , thoughts and footprints … Continue reading My Journal 34. Karma

My Journal 33 . Judging People

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Hi friends the other day this week i was having a whatsapp conversation with a friend who was once my college mate around 15 years ago , we haven't met since then and we connected back through facebook last year . We dont speak much but do drop a hi some time , many who … Continue reading My Journal 33 . Judging People

My Journal 31. Its always there inside

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Most Of the things we and even as children one thinks is uncable of is actually a mindlock due to fear of failures or low self esteem or lack of motivation and support or low self confidence.Sometimes all you need is a push to actually get down and try to do it on your own … Continue reading My Journal 31. Its always there inside

My Journal 29. Simplicity

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I am kind of person who believes in owning not more than needed amount of dresses and two pairs of shoes at a time.I don't have to have all dresses in trend or a footwear to match each , i do have two additional for occasions which i dont mind reusing after care. One thing … Continue reading My Journal 29. Simplicity

My Journal 28. Dual Life

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Its not new individuals either alone or as families many a times have been living two lives , ones that they actually know or go through in reality and the ones that they put up to be, a perfect picture of self or relationships and life .Time before and even now in some parts of … Continue reading My Journal 28. Dual Life

My Journal 26. Best or Mediocre

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The choice is not easy everybody wants to be the best. But actually there is no best and trying to be the one , looses the perception of reality and going for an imaginary perfect best losing a lot in the process. Mediocre is real, a balance, a space for growth , time for all … Continue reading My Journal 26. Best or Mediocre

My Journal 25. Life is about change

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Hi dear friends recently i have not been regular with my posts and blogging , its due to other responsibilities and my daughters academic year end studies .Yet whenever i find time i always will post about everything i always do .If i am not reading or liking your posts its probably i am away … Continue reading My Journal 25. Life is about change

My Journal 24. – Nonverbal

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Hi dear friends , if you know me from past 10 months i have been blogging i write a lot about parenting and many other things .Also have started journaling where i talk about those topics from life and around i think about or feel , But what after all this I tell you I … Continue reading My Journal 24. – Nonverbal

My Journal 22. – Forces of Life

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There are various types of forces as described in physics gravity , friction , applied , magnetic, spring, normal... . But in real life in human experience too I have seen and experienced around many forces though i tried to name them according to their existence in human life. There could be more type of … Continue reading My Journal 22. – Forces of Life

My Journal 21. – Something vs Nothing

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This post is actually inspired by a science video of one of my favorite science video creator "The action Lab", i find more meaning than science and connections in the way science is explained. In one of the videos he talks about "do nothing grinder" and what is difference between that seems nothing and is … Continue reading My Journal 21. – Something vs Nothing

My Journal 20. – The Fancy Shoes

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Today we went out for shopping to actual shop unlike online shopping we have been doing for some months where the biggest problem is what you see is not what you get , then the color , size , quality difference than what you expected . With kids it becomes the double the trouble if … Continue reading My Journal 20. – The Fancy Shoes

My Journal 19. – Humor and Me

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What makes one laugh or what humor means or what is your sense of humor defines a lot about the persons take on life , his mentality , his sensitivity to others and self .Some people think me and humor are not at good relation , which is not true only that I don't have … Continue reading My Journal 19. – Humor and Me

My Journal 18. The Slide

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One thing we miss a lot after the pandemic in the visit to community gardens especially overcrowded in those kids play area during weekends . The kids were unknown to each other but they enjoyed running around those equipment's , climbing and hanging and the rush sliding down. These don't make that much fun , … Continue reading My Journal 18. The Slide

My Journal 16.- The Question

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I have come with my version of the answer to the question that most of us have had some point in our life . Sometimes we followed what was told or taught us , at times we had those versions where we wanted to make our choices seem right , then we have those versions … Continue reading My Journal 16.- The Question

My Journal 15. – Timeout

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Something that has come around everybody's life with these new normal is "timeout". A break from those regular lifestyle those parts that formed parts of routine of our life and some of them which were real big parts of life suddenly went out and we found those time and energies introduced to many new areas … Continue reading My Journal 15. – Timeout

My Journal 14. – Journey

One truth about life all agree to especially if they have seen and lived life in every aspect, know that its all about the journey not the destination. Yes i have known people who have skipped the journey , sometimes found shortcuts to reach the same destination , but i tell you it was totally … Continue reading My Journal 14. – Journey

Writing to connect, Writing to express

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Sometimes words were not enough.Sometimes the situation just not apt.Sometimes the listener just not right.Sometimes these are emotions you couldn't speak. I held my words to myself, And then put them to write. But its no less a challenge, Should i write this or that . Can i mention this or not. How to put … Continue reading Writing to connect, Writing to express