Being All

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Nobody told the clouds to rain and shine at the same time The sun never gave warmth of moon, though its heat gives life to all. The ocean takes in from all that comes in  , it never has to give back to them. The roots hold on , but the delicate leaves caters to … Continue reading Being All

No more love

Why does it feel always like a memo To even get across to you. Why do you stare at screens Even when I am speaking to you. Why dont you understand When I say I need a break. Why do you open accounts To show how much you do. Why cant we just speak and … Continue reading No more love

Ups and downs

We will be through it. Both the ups and downs. Dont expect it to be a perfect one, There will be bumps along the road. We may cross each other. Sometimes we move parallel. At times one of us pulls over , The other keeps moving. At times we are in the same lane. Sometimes … Continue reading Ups and downs

My Journal 51. Laugh it off

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Its , The ability to laugh at own self to help us to face our true selves and yet  embrace and accept it as part of ourselves makes life lovable. To be able to accept ourselves just as we are , among our near ones is a great boost to being ourselves. Family or our … Continue reading My Journal 51. Laugh it off

My Journal 37 . Changing People

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Many a times we want to change people around us especially our dear ones to see for their betterment , happiness and success. Sometimes to make relations work , to get better out of a relation, for them to have better relations . This isn't easy because not everybody is willing to change, nor is … Continue reading My Journal 37 . Changing People

Pondering Question 2 . Power of choice

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Hi this is from set of pondering questions where i would like to discuss and know your thoughts from real world either through general or personal perspective.Please do drop in your views. So today i would like to know about, How do we use the power of choice ? Let me put an imaginary twist … Continue reading Pondering Question 2 . Power of choice

Relationships

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Relationships for a reason. for common intention. for sharing emotions. Relations that think alike, that don't attach. that serve purpose. Relationships of every type, ones that last lifetime. ones that dont stand test of time. those that are ties of blood. those that are stronger than bonds of blood. ones that need attention. ones that … Continue reading Relationships

Violence At Home

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Violence at home Is a weakness, to unable to connect. to unable to reflect. to cover up the flaws. to cover up for they will reveal. Violence at home is a weakness, not willing to accept others opinion. fear of losing ones position. inability to handle human emotions. suppressing those questioning your intentions. Violence at … Continue reading Violence At Home

A heart to connect to

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Rushing through chores, The same routine everyday. The in and out so familiar, Works like a background score. Though at times its different. Sometimes pushing hard.Sometimes drawing short paths. Sometimes late than the fixed slot. Sometimes learning to keep up with the lot. Then to find timefor others to attend to. When all go to … Continue reading A heart to connect to

Listen to your kids

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We are always in a mood to teach , train or pass instructions or judgments. It is very necessary to take out time just to listen to them. No doubt all we do is out of care and concern but its also a relation like any other relation and we need to build it giving … Continue reading Listen to your kids

Freedom to fly

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A bird trains its chick to fly ,But never asks it to returnAs it has a journey to strive. ThenWhy do we bind them, and have them burden expectations. Why do we tell them they are free, yet they have a limited sky. Its in our duty to care to teach them to fly. Its … Continue reading Freedom to fly

Double Standard

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Its very common to have people preach very high morals and practice exactly the opposite without letting it even be doubted. Its in this generation which holds a face and feels or thinks exactly opposite within , without changes in lines of face. This has made it even difficult to judge people just by their … Continue reading Double Standard

Reflection 8. – Freedom to make decisions and opinion’s

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The best way to put your belief in children , give them an understanding of all possibilities , choices , the effects good or bad , the values right and wrong and then freedom to let them make their decisions and form opinions based on their thinking and experience. Yet if they go wrong they … Continue reading Reflection 8. – Freedom to make decisions and opinion’s

Reflections 4. – Parenting challenges at Different Ages

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Many a times as parents confronted with difficult situation with child at various ages of development, we have come to terms with other facets of development too. We would try to find factors beyond our control to have influenced the child The child wasn't so before, was bright or excelled in academics or sports or … Continue reading Reflections 4. – Parenting challenges at Different Ages

Entertainment takes toll on Learning

A generation in which the men were mostly learned and earner in the family with women to handle burden of household chores.There was a wide spread craze of cricket in all forms ones that would go for days and ones that would start and end with day. It kept the audience so occupied, hours and … Continue reading Entertainment takes toll on Learning

New Parental Challenges with Covid-19

New Parental Challenges with Covid-19

Already being a parent has its challenges to undertake but with COVID-19 and followed lockdown the life of parenting has turned upside down for many. In normal life before, if both parents were working all requirements heeded for the child were very well in place. The time table for the day of the child was … Continue reading New Parental Challenges with Covid-19