My Journal 75. Somethings click right away

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We all have owned something in our childhood that forms part of our memories even today. Have you ever owned that one dress or toy or something special like a pen or t-shirt that you cherished and those memories with them became so beautiful . I have heard people speaking of those from their times … Continue reading My Journal 75. Somethings click right away

My Journal 74. Life Talks

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With our kids and close relations to build this internal connection to understand from perspective beyond just material world , its necessary we discuss about spirituality , humanity and life. Through these talks help them realize their potential as humans, our responsibility to our environment and lives around . How in various stages of life … Continue reading My Journal 74. Life Talks

The Aesthete Blogger Award!🏆

I was recently nominated by Grace for this one! . She has a wonderful blog , motivating and inspiring poems also she is a very dear friend . Her poems are very beautiful , aware and healing. Thank you so much for the nomination. Please check her blog. Enjoy it, for yourself! RULES:- Use the official … Continue reading The Aesthete Blogger Award!🏆

Dazzling Blogger Award✨

I’m overjoyed to have been nominated for the Dazzling Blogger Award! Thank you to Julia Tannenbaum from https://wackywriter.com/about/ for the nomination! Julia is an activist and an author , her blogs are very inspiring and motivating also she shares her journey as she battled through anorexia and depression. She is creating a lot of awareness about … Continue reading Dazzling Blogger Award✨

The Sunshine Blogger Award🌞

I was recently nominated by Grace her blog https://graceofthesun.com/ . Its a wonderful blog on her poetry with topics ranging from humanity, self consciousness , self awareness, mental health and everything that i like reading and talking about . If you follow my blog you are going to love her blog even more. Go check … Continue reading The Sunshine Blogger Award🌞

My Journal.73 Herd Mindset

How great achiever or successful or talented one is in their field or life, loses its value if they are remote controlled under the influence of another. To have achieved a position of great value with efforts but not having the freedom to be able to freely think or decide for oneself renders  the knowledge … Continue reading My Journal.73 Herd Mindset

My Journal 72. Talking about Negative topics

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Many a times in a society people who try to bring to light or talk about negative issues are alienated as others find them annoying or negative . Actually to be able to speak , accept and have a point of view on these so called negative topics is very much necessary to break that … Continue reading My Journal 72. Talking about Negative topics

Connections

I dont try ,so hard to connect I know, we are already connected. Each one of them who feels for me I can feel their love. Each one of them who sees through me Knows I have touched their soul. Each one of them who knows what I am trying to make Just have wishes … Continue reading Connections

My Journal 71. How to stop others opinions affect your views

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Being part of this socializing trend how not to let others views affect your judgment or not let them lead your thoughts or doubt your own views. These should be very carefully evaluated decision because most of the time we want to be part of these social relations that gives a sense of belonging ,at … Continue reading My Journal 71. How to stop others opinions affect your views

My Journal 70. Creative expressions

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A few days before i shared a post on my Fb wall of contemporary sculpture artist, it was an amazing collection of creativity .Where a complex sculpture structure was very simply beautifully , artistically achieved with using plain structure of rods and physics that gave it a feel of moving sculpture adding life to space … Continue reading My Journal 70. Creative expressions

My Journal 69. Life and Books

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There is a deep connection between the two life and books and how they complement each other. Its through these books we have learnt from what was known to life and what we haven't known , what is there more to explore , travel to unknown and imaginary realms, paths traversed , knowledge discovered and … Continue reading My Journal 69. Life and Books

My Journal 68. Reclaim Yourself

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In life many a times we walk the wrong path not knowing its not leading to our destination this may be due to wrong decisions or wrongly directed or wrong people and relations or lies that you believed or was made to believe in . And what happens when you realize you have reached a … Continue reading My Journal 68. Reclaim Yourself

A collection of my Poems

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Hi friends since its my blog anniversary , i decided to make a collection of my poems these are part of my books too. There are topics from life , emotions , woman , motherhood , humanity , writing , parenting , children i try to speak of varied things through my poems just when … Continue reading A collection of my Poems

Parenting , Life , Creativity , Social Science – My Journal Posts Archive

Hi friends and readers who have joined me recently these are posts from My Journal If you would like to read my previous posts and content . Hope these posts may interest you . These posts are part of my books too if you would like to check them please visit the homepage.

My Journal 66. Attitude , Pride and Ego

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We live in a society where conforming to others opinions , thoughts or ways is seen as something really positive or good. This need not be always right just to fit in to the bracket of " goodness" of definition of another we put up with everything and if one doesn't or is very clear … Continue reading My Journal 66. Attitude , Pride and Ego

My Journal 65 . Goodness

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It is not enough to have goodness or practice it , one needs to be aware , learned in all ways to protect ones goodness . It not easy to change people around you or expect them to be good just because you are , that's the reason through various topics i try to speak … Continue reading My Journal 65 . Goodness

My Journal 64. Everybody has a place

Most of the time when people reach from nowhere to somewhere. They take pride and boast about their journey and achievements . Not only that , to show their value and importance they would look down or put down everyone else less or make sure to undermine others value to maintain their importance. That is … Continue reading My Journal 64. Everybody has a place

My Journal 63. Start with a clean slate

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At certain times in our lives when we are the start of something very new or we have to begin all over again , we have to be ready to start with a clean slate. To not to carry burdens of our past wrongs , stern approach , not carry regrets or take the blame … Continue reading My Journal 63. Start with a clean slate

My Journal 62. Brandings

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Our generation is very much driven by branding . There is an entire industry that works , researches , analyses and strategize techniques to reach and influence. Goods , services even celebrities are portrayed to us as brands with their unique feature that is made up to focus on human requirements or emotions with catchy … Continue reading My Journal 62. Brandings

Thankyou 😊🎊

Thankyou friends and readers helping me reach 500 in WordPress and 1000 in all platforms. I will keep doing what I do best and try for better every time. My focus will always be to express than impress , to connect rather than perfect , spread positivity through words and solutions. Thank you for being with … Continue reading Thankyou 😊🎊

Points for Trying

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It very important as tutors or parents we appreciate the Childs attempt to find a solution and recognize their efforts. This is very much needed to keep their confidence , interest and positivity to work on their own for solutions , to locate and work on their errors without being disappointed for not able to … Continue reading Points for Trying

My Journal 61. Generalized

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A very common thing followed is bracketing everything or generalizing opinions based on gender , positions , professions , relations, culture , beliefs . Which is very not right, though these are widely accepted and forms part of our back thinking too. There is a kind of following to certain professions , certain characteristics or … Continue reading My Journal 61. Generalized

My Journal 60 . Nullifying

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Remember those times from childhood when you go to complain to teacher or parent about another , and after sometimes the other comes up with a claim you were the one who actually made it happen or are lying about the incident and your complaint is nullified . It becomes difficult to prove how the … Continue reading My Journal 60 . Nullifying

My Journal 59. Good to be Ok

My writing are sometimes ok , sometimes good . This is my own evaluation of my work as I relook . Yes the intention and thought behind each is clear, the difference is in the rendering depending on conditions differ. But one thing for sure i like the ok ones equally to the good ones … Continue reading My Journal 59. Good to be Ok

My Journal 58. Power of positivity

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Do not underestimate the power of positivity in current times . This power in you has the strength to make miracles for self and others around . I believe in this power of positivity, though it may be a part of pseudoscience. Positivity can make great miracles, especially positivity radiated by the community at large, … Continue reading My Journal 58. Power of positivity

My Journal 56. Mutual Admiration and Respect

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Its very important to respect and appreciate each other mutually in any relation to keep respectful views from both sides, value your differences , respect for the relation, commitment to the relation , public display of appreciation for another despite any conflicts. Being a writer i admire my readers for their ability to see through … Continue reading My Journal 56. Mutual Admiration and Respect

My Journal 55. My Little Tomato Plant

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Hi friends i couldn't write for sometime there were difficult times at home , wouldn't speak much of it . But yes there are these days when things look really out of hand , i don't find strength to do more , yes there are these bad days i wish never happened . I wont … Continue reading My Journal 55. My Little Tomato Plant

My Journal 54 . Two Different Worlds

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We all know how its to be part of two different worlds with this pandemic the one before it and the one now we call the new world . The rules , life , restriction , change in all spheres' of life and many more complexities that doesn't fit into words that cant explain how … Continue reading My Journal 54 . Two Different Worlds

My Journal 51. Laugh it off

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Its , The ability to laugh at own self to help us to face our true selves and yet  embrace and accept it as part of ourselves makes life lovable. To be able to accept ourselves just as we are , among our near ones is a great boost to being ourselves. Family or our … Continue reading My Journal 51. Laugh it off

My Journal 47. Principles

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In our choices to be principled , moralistic and have high values there is a constant struggle when it comes to choosing between being stern or flexible . Being a very high principles person for very long which has made life a bigger struggle for me to have faced it right in the face without … Continue reading My Journal 47. Principles

Sunshine Blogger Award 🌞

Hi friends I had been nominated for Sunshine Blogger Award few months back by my dear blogger friend Krishnapriya. As excited i was to receive my first nomination , i was still discovering my journey in blogging and finding my place through my writings. I could not reply back then though i thanked her for … Continue reading Sunshine Blogger Award 🌞

My Journal 46. Take a break and find your balance

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Hi dear friends, I have been busy blogging and editing for my books regularly . I admit i love writing its the most important part of my life and keeps my days going , but no matter how much i love it , i have decided to take breaks in between . Where i get … Continue reading My Journal 46. Take a break and find your balance

My Journal 45. We get what We put up with

Most of the time we realize what we get is what we put up with. This does not apply to all situations in our life , but to the ones we are in control of or can take control with our will and courage .Those that are in the power of our choices and decisions … Continue reading My Journal 45. We get what We put up with

My Journal 44. Some are never going to like you

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Some people are never going to like you no matter what you do or things and times change . That's going to remain exactly like that and there is no point trying so hard to get them to like you or convince them . The reason being there exists no proper reason which they themselves … Continue reading My Journal 44. Some are never going to like you

My Journal 43. Passion fuels Life

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Hi friends , I have started working on my third book in the series My journal And Poems which is about "Life and Meaning" . Its a collection of topics from spirituality , passion , self realization , finding our true calling and our connection with the world around us . I though of taking … Continue reading My Journal 43. Passion fuels Life

My Journal 42. True Calling

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I know exactly what it means it took me really long to find ways ,to acknowledge ,to believe and pursue it . I am not saying I exactly knew what it was , until i went through all ways that life put me through i did what best i could do in those times trying … Continue reading My Journal 42. True Calling

My Journal 41. To be a part or not

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The freedom to do what one wants to , intend to , or choose not to be part of what feels wrong looses it value in the process we decide to be part of these groups , groups that control and influence our choices , decisions or think for us . Unwillingly , silently we … Continue reading My Journal 41. To be a part or not

My Journal 40. Reaching Out

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Hi friends this is in relation to recent episodes of my life where i was venturing into books . I have no background or even basic knowledge about it being from a technical background , i just knew to write and am passionate about it and blog was best for me as i knew how … Continue reading My Journal 40. Reaching Out

My Journal . 39 Timestamps

I have been behind the scenes for really long away from social media , zero contact with people I knew from college life  , just disappeared from everybody's sight mainly after college was done.I did this to actually deal with my life and problems settle things that just needed focus and recovery . After around … Continue reading My Journal . 39 Timestamps

My Journal 38. Defining the limits

Somethings in life are better not judged as less or more .Because these things can become a part of our system and in the process we ourself loose the control to keep it within limits or draw the line between less or more. Such things are best kept out of our system and life . … Continue reading My Journal 38. Defining the limits

My Journal 37 . Changing People

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Many a times we want to change people around us especially our dear ones to see for their betterment , happiness and success. Sometimes to make relations work , to get better out of a relation, for them to have better relations . This isn't easy because not everybody is willing to change, nor is … Continue reading My Journal 37 . Changing People

My Journal 36. The Over – Type

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Hi friends , i have been always receiver of the title of over thinker from my college days to real life. I have had my challenges and had to work on ways to achieve in spite those unusual and difficult circumstances in my life and around my loved ones because me complaining wouldn't have helped … Continue reading My Journal 36. The Over – Type

My Journal 35. “I am ok with this”

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Hi friends , if one is kind of a person who learns from everybody , who is flexible ,willing for change . But that gives way to lot of opinions how and what to do , unsolicited advise . There are many people out there who think they know everything about everything , and hold … Continue reading My Journal 35. “I am ok with this”

My Journal 34. Karma

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Many talk about one thing is that how karma will get back or how it serves right what one deserves. I don't know how the Karma works or what it is but what i have read and researched about and it looks . We should be taking responsibility for our actions , thoughts and footprints … Continue reading My Journal 34. Karma

Pondering Question 2 . Power of choice

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Hi this is from set of pondering questions where i would like to discuss and know your thoughts from real world either through general or personal perspective.Please do drop in your views. So today i would like to know about, How do we use the power of choice ? Let me put an imaginary twist … Continue reading Pondering Question 2 . Power of choice

My Journal 33 . Judging People

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Hi friends the other day this week i was having a whatsapp conversation with a friend who was once my college mate around 15 years ago , we haven't met since then and we connected back through facebook last year . We dont speak much but do drop a hi some time , many who … Continue reading My Journal 33 . Judging People

Pondering Questions 1. Disciplining or Reasoning

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Hi friends i would be writing short articles about the most debatable or self check topics or questions related to life , parenting , kids .I want you to give your opinions with either a general or personal perspective , but please do not judge others because sometimes it could be of best of both … Continue reading Pondering Questions 1. Disciplining or Reasoning

My Journal 32. Share and Speak up

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We share experiences in the form of knowledge but rarely do we share our experiences especially with a dark past openly with others. Fear of being judged , fear of reliving those emotions , fear of inability to express or fear of the immaturity of the listener .Whichever reason be it we hold back sharing … Continue reading My Journal 32. Share and Speak up

My Journal 31. Its always there inside

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Most Of the things we and even as children one thinks is uncable of is actually a mindlock due to fear of failures or low self esteem or lack of motivation and support or low self confidence.Sometimes all you need is a push to actually get down and try to do it on your own … Continue reading My Journal 31. Its always there inside

My Journal 30 . Healing

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Though i talk a lot about self improvement , emotional regulation , self awareness , resilience , mindfulness and reflective attitude ; I too have faced my share of troubles and challenges some of them the most difficult ones , we pray never to face for ourselves or our dear ones .I too have been … Continue reading My Journal 30 . Healing

My Journal 29. Simplicity

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I am kind of person who believes in owning not more than needed amount of dresses and two pairs of shoes at a time.I don't have to have all dresses in trend or a footwear to match each , i do have two additional for occasions which i dont mind reusing after care. One thing … Continue reading My Journal 29. Simplicity

My Journal 28. Dual Life

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Its not new individuals either alone or as families many a times have been living two lives , ones that they actually know or go through in reality and the ones that they put up to be, a perfect picture of self or relationships and life .Time before and even now in some parts of … Continue reading My Journal 28. Dual Life

My Journal 27. Follow your Heart

In todays world where its more about following , followers , hearts and likes which is all about moving with the trend , keeping up with that's very current , doing what gets more heart or likes. I want to talk about this "follow your heart" which is mostly overrated in movies or creative talks … Continue reading My Journal 27. Follow your Heart

My Journal 24. – Nonverbal

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Hi dear friends , if you know me from past 10 months i have been blogging i write a lot about parenting and many other things .Also have started journaling where i talk about those topics from life and around i think about or feel , But what after all this I tell you I … Continue reading My Journal 24. – Nonverbal

My Journal 23. – Self -Consciousness

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While we have become outgrown , confident , achievers , better informed ,more knowledge , more aware but at some point in life when we were kids or youth or at some point or the other we were very self conscious sometimes due to the way be look or some distinguishing feature or being less … Continue reading My Journal 23. – Self -Consciousness

My Journal 22. – Forces of Life

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There are various types of forces as described in physics gravity , friction , applied , magnetic, spring, normal... . But in real life in human experience too I have seen and experienced around many forces though i tried to name them according to their existence in human life. There could be more type of … Continue reading My Journal 22. – Forces of Life

My Journal 21. – Something vs Nothing

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This post is actually inspired by a science video of one of my favorite science video creator "The action Lab", i find more meaning than science and connections in the way science is explained. In one of the videos he talks about "do nothing grinder" and what is difference between that seems nothing and is … Continue reading My Journal 21. – Something vs Nothing

My Journal 20. – The Fancy Shoes

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Today we went out for shopping to actual shop unlike online shopping we have been doing for some months where the biggest problem is what you see is not what you get , then the color , size , quality difference than what you expected . With kids it becomes the double the trouble if … Continue reading My Journal 20. – The Fancy Shoes

My Journal 19. – Humor and Me

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What makes one laugh or what humor means or what is your sense of humor defines a lot about the persons take on life , his mentality , his sensitivity to others and self .Some people think me and humor are not at good relation , which is not true only that I don't have … Continue reading My Journal 19. – Humor and Me

My Journal 18. The Slide

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One thing we miss a lot after the pandemic in the visit to community gardens especially overcrowded in those kids play area during weekends . The kids were unknown to each other but they enjoyed running around those equipment's , climbing and hanging and the rush sliding down. These don't make that much fun , … Continue reading My Journal 18. The Slide

My Journal 16.- The Question

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I have come with my version of the answer to the question that most of us have had some point in our life . Sometimes we followed what was told or taught us , at times we had those versions where we wanted to make our choices seem right , then we have those versions … Continue reading My Journal 16.- The Question

My Journal 15. – Timeout

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Something that has come around everybody's life with these new normal is "timeout". A break from those regular lifestyle those parts that formed parts of routine of our life and some of them which were real big parts of life suddenly went out and we found those time and energies introduced to many new areas … Continue reading My Journal 15. – Timeout

My Journal.13- Unspoken Words

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No matter how great writer , speaker , orator or artist one are there are areas of life or living one never speaks of or sometimes left unspoken of .These are part of the unspoken words of life sometimes of the community at large we are a part of. Sometimes these are feeling long lost … Continue reading My Journal.13- Unspoken Words

My Journal 12. – Patterns , Phases and Pursuit

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I am more kind of spiritual person to the extent i believe in the existence and purpose of life only on spirituality. But i refrain from sharing my thoughts or knowledge on spirituality because i think its a personal journey one experiences through life and cant be learnt or taught and sought through another's viewpoint … Continue reading My Journal 12. – Patterns , Phases and Pursuit

My Journal 11. Small Things

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There are many small things around us in home or at work that have great value despite their size or value of existence . These acts , things , expressions serve their purpose so important that most of them are irreplaceable. These small things are so valuable when needed we almost go on a hunt … Continue reading My Journal 11. Small Things

My Journal 10. The Masala Box

Every Indian home has this spice box in their kitchen which contains a variety of spices either as whole or as powdered mixture called masalas . Each masala has different combination of spices for different taste for different foods. Sometimes a combination of these masalas are used in different proportion to get the required taste. … Continue reading My Journal 10. The Masala Box

My Journal 8. – Superhumans

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We all have been in this phase or point which push us beyond our limits and we feel like superhumans. I am not exaggerating actually when we remember those memories even we are shocked how could we do something like this. Human mind is beyond comprehension. May be that's what about humans when time or … Continue reading My Journal 8. – Superhumans

My Journal 3. The Lamppost

It is always late bed time for me with finishing all the left work , to putting kids to sleep and then some time out for myself. During this hour of night when i look out of my window which is at a higher floor , i see the lamp post the one with the … Continue reading My Journal 3. The Lamppost

Thanks post to readers

Dear readers , blogger friends , parents I am thankful and greatful to you to have reached 200 followers in WP and 200 followers in other social platform , but most of all accepting me and helping me grow as part of this community. I have been writing about education , parenting , life, family, … Continue reading Thanks post to readers

My Journal 17. – Belief System

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We all have a belief system based on culture, religion , values, priorities, path to spirituality . Some believe in the existence of supreme power so do I , some believe in the control of their life and power of their action, some believe the power is around us and everywhere . There are innumerable … Continue reading My Journal 17. – Belief System