Sellable

In this world market Where everything sells. I dont know how do we sell That is priceless. Why do we buy That is worthless. Still everything valued at its price Not a thought about the price we pay To own something at the cost of life so dear. And to learn this skill to sell … Continue reading Sellable

Journey to Self Realization

When all of it starts falling in place Each of it starts to make sense. To realise all of it had a reason Each of your scars tells a story of courage. To have known all of it by being there Each of those hurdles and fears conquered. To have followed it with all of … Continue reading Journey to Self Realization

Saplings

How it is to be helpless When just a sapling Fate decided at the hands that nurtures. Lessons  to prepare , to face and withstand all that endangers . What if the caretaker decides to disown it What if he wants to uproot it What if it is treated as a weed What if flowers … Continue reading Saplings

Riding the waves of change

To be able to read the winds See the pattern in the waves Hear from beyond your thoughts Brings the wisdom of change. To be able to challenge yourself To be able to let go , best of now To be able to start anew again Needs a lot of courage. To know now is … Continue reading Riding the waves of change

A Little Bit of Everything – India version

Hi friends paperback for India is Live now at notionpress https://notionpress.com/read/a-little-bit-of-everything-1354228 Please order your copies. KINDLE version for India: https://www.amazon.in/dp/B09BKTFTFM

Undo

Can we undo our wrongs Can we make it right again Can we fix it like new again. No we can't. But to realise and make an effort To know we have wronged And wanting to change . To know it was a moment of decision And not pushing the blame . To have put … Continue reading Undo

Sacrifice

To give up the most cherished of all To see anothers dream fulfilled above all At the expense of our own Wanting to see another grow. This bitter sweet poison I swallow everyday. To see you make it each day Helps me forget the pain. And everyday till my breadth Till I can endure I … Continue reading Sacrifice

A Little Bit of Everything – Paperback Live

Hi friends my book A little bit of everything is live now 🥳 . Please own your copy , it is a great collection that connects to our hearts . A little bit of everything - a collection of poems from various topics like self awareness , motivation, humanity , spirituality, social awareness, women and … Continue reading A Little Bit of Everything – Paperback Live

A Little Bit of Everything – EBook Live

Hi friends my book A little bit of everything is live now 🥳 . Please own your copy , it is a great collection that connects to our hearts . Also paperback will be available soon🌼 A little bit of everything - a collection of poems from various topics like self awareness , motivation, humanity … Continue reading A Little Bit of Everything – EBook Live

Be their voice

With kids one thing we need to be very sure of is that, more than we teach them about various things, we need to be their voice and help them find it . Help them articulate their thoughts. Give them awareness about their various feelings and emotions . Help them achieve through affirmations. Allow them … Continue reading Be their voice

Words matter

Words matter No matter From whom But they matter. Those words To make you feel better To make you realise your hidden power To keep a promise forever To call its over To stop the pressure To define clear measures To raise what bothers. To make you wiser. To hold you together. Those words matter … Continue reading Words matter

I hold the power

I am not giving youthe power to hurt meI wont hate youto power your intentionsAgainst me. you don't deserveeven my slightest attention.I make sure you arenot fueled by my reaction.You mean nothing to mefaced with my indifference. I wont let you be the center of the universe.I won't let youIntercept my thoughtsI hold the powerto … Continue reading I hold the power

Love Renewed

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Would you still love me When I have lost my sparkle When my skills no more shine And those medals no more mine When my mettles grow weak As if lost in deep ocean of time. Back to being me just at the start of a new journey Would you able to see that side … Continue reading Love Renewed

Energies

They flow without limits Changing forms Sometimes in receiving Sometimes in giving So pure they reach faster than prayers So harsh they can make loss deeper than swords. With no control over it They flow from our deepest desires Sometimes positive . Sometimes negative. The ones from our dear ones heal And from them who … Continue reading Energies

Ease

The ease with which the river flows Making its  path on its own The ease with which smile connects Requires no translation The ease with which a child imagines With no limitations. The ease with which a mother loves Witout any expectation. The ease with which thoughts flow From a poets pen Without any inhibition.

Grieving in Silence

Shouldn't you mourn a loss screaming and crying How bad it is to not be able to let it roll and have it bottled within To feel the pain so deep but cant express  it openly To behave as if it never happened or existed To keep going with a part of you lost in … Continue reading Grieving in Silence

Flowers

Flowers that bloom Spread fragrance all around Beauty in its coloured petals Attract bees and insects That works to preserve its nectar Before its gone. Now this nectar in other forms Reaches all around That flower so fragile and delicate Lived and spread its sweetness Beyond its life and even after gone.

Goodbye👋

I think its time to say goodbye I didnt want to miss this last wishes We should take out time to say our good byes For them Who have waited and been there for us. If you no more hear from me This may be my last words Dont worry I am good Just going … Continue reading Goodbye👋

Apples sour or sweet?

Are the apples sour or sweet He looks up with a smile And speaks with confidence Sweetest in the street. And she takes it for his words They seem very true To have come straight from him With the weight in his words Its hard to believe the other way. She pays the price He … Continue reading Apples sour or sweet?

To know the Truth

You want to know the truth Do you want to hear my story. I will tell you every bit of it Will you able to take all of it. When it will reveal all that you never knew When it will show all that you didnt want to see When it will speak all of … Continue reading To know the Truth

Toys

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her eyes lit up that toy helped her forget all that ached. to see her dreams filled in owning that precious thing reminded me how we keep playing with our minds. every time we own a toy our hearts jump with joy and when we outgrow it then it lies with others in the stack. … Continue reading Toys

My Journal 77. Common traps

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Some common traps we all fall into whether you believe it or not however smart one is , we always in some form or the other fall into these traps. The best one is with our choices most of the time right from start with our intuition with our gut feeling , through our connection … Continue reading My Journal 77. Common traps

My Journal 76. Imperfect Life

Do we want to have the perfect life where everyday moves the way we like, every relation behaves the way we want , everything we would ever want to own is  always there. Then what would life mean without struggles to achieve , to keeping up the balance , to letting go sometimes and to … Continue reading My Journal 76. Imperfect Life

My Journal 75. Somethings click right away

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We all have owned something in our childhood that forms part of our memories even today. Have you ever owned that one dress or toy or something special like a pen or t-shirt that you cherished and those memories with them became so beautiful . I have heard people speaking of those from their times … Continue reading My Journal 75. Somethings click right away

You can’t

You cant count all, some are meant to be weighed You cant push every door some open to pull You cant speak of everything some are felt in silence alone You cant grow without learning how to walk on your own You cant see the light without knowing darkness You cant see the other side … Continue reading You can’t

Not my way

You cant always have your ways Nor can submit to all their ways. If you hold stern You will get the other hurt Or force them to go against . Take a look into their side Make space for their viewpoint. Work out a mid way A little of you A little of them So … Continue reading Not my way

Legends were made

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Legends were not born Legends were made They learnt through those falls They grew through those cracks They have been through those trenches. Found strength behind those failures To rise and be better. A vision beyond self powered to see for others. Followed their unique abilities To bring a new perspective . A dedication of … Continue reading Legends were made

Grew apart

Sometimes these distances grows so long. We stopped wishing each other in those routine pass. We didn't stop to ask each other about. Now it seems like a long journey To get back to you and start again Like we are unknown again. I wish one of us had tried not letting it build so … Continue reading Grew apart

Tools for life

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Toolsmakes life half the strugglethese tools ease purposeserves to achieve the desired result.sometimes a handheld devicesometimes strategy wisesometimes the key to those doors of life.these could be skillssharpened over time.experience and learningbeing through the grind.an attitude to get it donean approach to peaceful life.love to connect heartsawareness to build safety.trust for stronger relationsvalues to keep … Continue reading Tools for life

Words powerful

She looked at me with tears in the brim Her pain radiating  through her anguish I know i had push her to make through this. And then I spoke, to help her rise A word to remind and  believe in the strength within Not giving up in the face and sinking in Using the power … Continue reading Words powerful

Compassion

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have you seen eyes screamwhen lips tight sealed .speaks of allthose dreaded talesfears beyond imaginepains that cross limitshelpless at the hands of fateThe only hope to relieveA Miracle from the Supreme. have you seen eyes screamand your heart speaksto help lessen those strainsto give a hand ,you careyour words to speak their storiesto show you … Continue reading Compassion

My Journal 74. Life Talks

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With our kids and close relations to build this internal connection to understand from perspective beyond just material world , its necessary we discuss about spirituality , humanity and life. Through these talks help them realize their potential as humans, our responsibility to our environment and lives around . How in various stages of life … Continue reading My Journal 74. Life Talks

Join the dots

Link Those dots that you missed Those you ignored Those you skipped. As you always had Those prefilled notions. Now you would know It was always there Right in front of you And then still you missed Just that you didn't focus on those signals. Now you would know What was missing in the picture … Continue reading Join the dots

Lifeless

What could lifeless mean No love to keep beating No passion to keep driving No reason to keep striving No hopes to keep chasing No humanity to thrive living. Lifeless objects around Serve purpose designed for Some overlooked Some put to use Some when worn are thrown Some to show around Some carry memories Some … Continue reading Lifeless

Connection Divine

Each has his reason to connect to divine For some to achieve their goals For some its fulfillment of soul For others its meeting their needs For some a  miracle to help fix For others through their works For some blessings for their loved ones For some its healing and recovery For others guiding through … Continue reading Connection Divine

Alone but not lonely

Its not that I dont value you Its not that you are insignificant to me. Just that After being through storms for such long I want to be alone and calm I want to be on my own See things move from a distant zone I want to make my part But from my comfort … Continue reading Alone but not lonely

Down the lane

I kept walking down the lane Turning pages of time frame. I have seen me been through all Those autumns that shed my leaves . Those volcanos that devasted and dislocated me. Those famines testing extremes. Those floods washing away all and then to rebuild. Those earthquakes that shook me within. And then the evolution … Continue reading Down the lane

Nature Teaches

Have you seen the clouds Boast when they rain Have you seen the moon Take pride in it's warmth Have you seen the Tree Ask in return for all that it gives Have you seen the river Differentiate before serving The nature has taught the lessons Through practise Its time mankind learns to blend in.

Not just flowers

We are not looking only for roses Why compare us to just flowers. We too want to run those machines Why shouldn't we own one of those extremes. We very well understand complexities Why cant we be the thinkers that lead. We known how to hold it together Why cant we be the mentors. We … Continue reading Not just flowers

The Pen

The pen is not passive The ink not just expresses. Its more than just words They are alone enough To rewrite humanity To eliminate all that hides Behind those well built soceity. What even the bravest can't Fight with his swords The writer with a soul Can eliminate with his strokes. All that keeps repeating … Continue reading The Pen

I changed

It wasn't always like this I too feared But one day decided to face it And then I no more  carry it. I too felt those wavy emotions But then stopped reacting And now its always stable within . I too wanted those big medals But then stopped expecting And they lost value. I too … Continue reading I changed

She had a dream

Have you seen dreams shatter They are very painful clutter. She had a dream At a hands reach Still she couldn't touch it. All thats inside her Just wanted that one thing. She gathered All the pieces But was not allowed to put it together. She knew thats what made her complete And still she … Continue reading She had a dream

Question at the gates

Standing at the gates To the final destination Stopped to ask a question. What pain could be greater A mouth to eat but couldn't eat A bed to sleep but no sleep A heart that beats but cannot love A wound from past A present full of struggles A future that is terminal. And came … Continue reading Question at the gates

Not yours

If they have not seen you shed Nor seen you rise after sinking. Those times you just kept surviving and enduring Carrying a smile but a time out for all the grieving. If they have  not know your struggles All those inner battles. How are they to be yours They have no place To say they … Continue reading Not yours

Rebirth

That point I felt I sunk deep down My spines no more took my command My heart tried pumping harder My brains tried holding all of it together I knew its over now or start anew. But where to start When all that I always ached for Now just vanished in thin air Taking with … Continue reading Rebirth

Mankind

If life no more seems satisfying If life is no more driven by trophy It no more feeds your drive. Its time to move on to the next level A force that that connects with your soul A need to leave behind your part in the making Making by changing , breaking and renewing Not … Continue reading Mankind

Creative expressions

When you enjoy that you do When your soul lost Not knowing where you belong Not knowing who is watching you . You become one with your expression So much that the art and artist are in one A unique creation with the amalgamation of self The spectator amazed to see such beauty never seen … Continue reading Creative expressions

As a little child

(Warning this is a sensitive content) As a little child You were my only world, The only shield to protect from the outer world. I knew you by my side Nothing dared to even look at me with evil eyes. And then in the most shocking moment That broke away my reality You revealed your … Continue reading As a little child

Holding on

I held onto you for really long Putting up with everything I never was Just to keep all of this going In the process hated all that I was becoming Something inside kept revolting And then after a time it stopped speaking. I wanted to wait till you would become All that I wished for … Continue reading Holding on

Power to rise

The power to rise Always comes from within. Whether be it a struggling caterpillar Or a bird learning to flap its wings. Whether in the face of fear Like the tiny animals guarding their territories Or the prey slipping from predators wings. Whether an outlet to maintain the balance Like the nature that responds by … Continue reading Power to rise

Companions

You are The one who completes me Its always us together or life stood still. In moments of seperation Always eyes looking out for the other. A kind of emptiness waiting for you to fill with your presence Without you its like solitude amidst the crowd. With you life has purpose and reason to keep … Continue reading Companions

My song

I think about my song, How long will I keep singing Can I keep singing till the end of time Will my song last to reach the end of time Will my song touch their hearts or just a beautiful melody or hymn What will happen when my song is over Will I start again … Continue reading My song

The Aesthete Blogger Award!🏆

I was recently nominated by Grace for this one! . She has a wonderful blog , motivating and inspiring poems also she is a very dear friend . Her poems are very beautiful , aware and healing. Thank you so much for the nomination. Please check her blog. Enjoy it, for yourself! RULES:- Use the official … Continue reading The Aesthete Blogger Award!🏆

Dazzling Blogger Award✨

I’m overjoyed to have been nominated for the Dazzling Blogger Award! Thank you to Julia Tannenbaum from https://wackywriter.com/about/ for the nomination! Julia is an activist and an author , her blogs are very inspiring and motivating also she shares her journey as she battled through anorexia and depression. She is creating a lot of awareness about … Continue reading Dazzling Blogger Award✨

The Sunshine Blogger Award🌞

I was recently nominated by Grace her blog https://graceofthesun.com/ . Its a wonderful blog on her poetry with topics ranging from humanity, self consciousness , self awareness, mental health and everything that i like reading and talking about . If you follow my blog you are going to love her blog even more. Go check … Continue reading The Sunshine Blogger Award🌞

Cuteness overload

She looked into my eyes with a sparkle held my hand with a warm feather touch hugged me at times tried clinging to my arm With her cuteness overload she asked me Aren't we going to be the  best friends forever In her sweet little voice. And I lied to her  with a big smile … Continue reading Cuteness overload

Complete

I waited really long for you Even stood beside you To see your perspective To be a part of it I held you through all of it. Now waiting for you To help me fix. But, You are gone ,now on your own You have found your newly made self You are eager to explore … Continue reading Complete

Vibes

You can sense when their words dont mean what they have spoken. You can sense the intention behind their actions. You know when they are here for another reason. Those vibes have already spoken . Still you take a step ahead To make a step towards change May be your vibes will influence them To … Continue reading Vibes

Time Alone

I dont know whats wrong with me Sometimes I feel like breaking off from everyone. Like a time alone. I dont even feel like saying a hi Even if you are moving right from near my eyes. I want to be in my own bubble Watch from a distance everything move Without being a part … Continue reading Time Alone

Facing fears

I am facing my fears Not letting it fill stuff in my ears That I cant I never will. I will go straight head first Fuelled with reason Ignited by mission Burning with desire I will be ready to face it ,right in the face of it. You cant put me down I have a … Continue reading Facing fears

I am not

I am not a poet I am not a writer I dont consider myself even near the better. Sometimes I dont know will it be accepted. Sometimes I doubt it will be rejected. But Then still everyday My thoughts flow And my pen gets to work. I am not writing to make it big. I … Continue reading I am not

Poem – Assurance

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Not a race

I will complete my journey I am reaching the post No matter the place I secure I will make it till the line. Yes I will move parallel to you That doesn't mean I am in the race. Yes our destinations are same That doesn't mean I am coming in your lane. Yes we are … Continue reading Not a race

Battles

Sometimes just ignore Behave ignorant Not all that they do needs your attention. But have your preparation right A step or two ahead of time When lines crossed Rebel with all your might. Give them a taste of their own medicine Let the blow be so hard To knock out For they never rise again … Continue reading Battles

Have times changed?

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Are we still judged the same or times have changed. She wanted to make a place for herself and ventured where her creativity guided. She joined the wagon making connections with the same interests, in the journey to exchange and grow . But some turned out to be a shock a reminder its still the … Continue reading Have times changed?

Behind the smiles

I wish I could read behind those smiles Ones hiding deep memories Ones covering true feelings Ones suppressing those discrepancies Ones without emotions Ones made up for the picture perfect Those smiles so pure The one that comes from fulfillment The one of innocence The one that reflects soul The one that spreads to all … Continue reading Behind the smiles

Bonds that break

Bonds that can break over a single disaggrement Bonds that last only till an aggrement Bonds that are quick at judgment Bonds that lack empathy for the other Bonds with pre conceived notions Bonds with stubborn requirements Bonds with expectations. Bonds with doubt and distraught. Bonds that dont forgive , accept and heal Bonds that … Continue reading Bonds that break

The Wait

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Sometimes You Just keep moving though Now the Answers may not be clear Nor the confidence to reach. Still keep moving With all that you can keep doing. Sometimes it may be windy Sometimes cloudy Sometimes foggy. Still keep moving doing your bit Because when the time is right And all of it clears The … Continue reading The Wait

A Gem

Oh You were too quick to judge me Let time pass and you will start to love me. As time will unfold Everything you never knew about me. As time will reveal All that you wrongly calculated in haste. As time will tell This time you were wrong to judge a person. As time will … Continue reading A Gem

Expressing

I dont express To put down , criticise or point anybody Its not about me Its pure account of, just as it is Not to bring forward my story Nor to seek sympathy Nor advise you on choices that no one can give Its just a map To the destination I traveled Roads I traversed … Continue reading Expressing

When its time

When it's time And I am gone I dont want to leave behind a gap to fill I dont want to be remembered for any will I want to leave Like the air that moved But nobody noticed Like the rain that showered And left everything fresh and renewed Like the river flowing A service … Continue reading When its time

Reason

The reason you write The reason you live The reason you share Becomes the soul of your works . They emit vibes As the reader reads. when written with a soul It will carry the energy of your will. Let the vibes be so strong Permeates through  hearts To reach their soul. Because when souls … Continue reading Reason

My Journal.73 Herd Mindset

How great achiever or successful or talented one is in their field or life, loses its value if they are remote controlled under the influence of another. To have achieved a position of great value with efforts but not having the freedom to be able to freely think or decide for oneself renders  the knowledge … Continue reading My Journal.73 Herd Mindset

My Journal 72. Talking about Negative topics

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Many a times in a society people who try to bring to light or talk about negative issues are alienated as others find them annoying or negative . Actually to be able to speak , accept and have a point of view on these so called negative topics is very much necessary to break that … Continue reading My Journal 72. Talking about Negative topics

Circus

I am not coming to the circus You are inviting me in. Where ferocious lions jump from rings Where majestic elephants sit on stools Where monkeys swing aimlessly. All trained to follow a stick Being not their original being. I am not accepting the invite To witness and be part of this . There is … Continue reading Circus

Simplicity

That connects to the heart That doesn't get lost in translation No ambiguity Nor those extra burden No glitter to make it shine. So easy made , yet conscious. Not wanting to fit in Just being me. Just how much I need. Not carrying weights of past Nor worried about a destination to reach. Just … Continue reading Simplicity

Peace

A bliss found within As you learn to accept everything as it is. Holding grudges and hate A turbulent storm created within. A constant urge to compare Always restless within. Not able to accept the other side A balance lost to extremes from within. This peace is always from within That affects our own living.

Attitude

If I had to , I would have given up long before Every time those pointers raised as if they were a perfect face. Each of those comments made for they had nothing useful to create. Every judgment passed without evaluating their own thoughts. Each of those advise given without knowing my journey and choices … Continue reading Attitude

Its good to be back

Its good to back With a renewed mindset Those clutters taken care of Chalked a way to keep track of New rules and defined limitations To keep check, meeting those expectation Sometimes in this whirlwind Its better to move out, to see how we are entwined Unable to see how we keep sinking deeper Loosing … Continue reading Its good to be back

Decisions

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Decisions that little pointthat paves the journey ahead that thought in mindthat helps you face with courage that moment taken in handthat defines your freedom to make those principles held so strongthat builds the person you are today those words spoken so loudthat no body can break those stands you takethat don't look for approval … Continue reading Decisions

Patience

The wait you grow in Testing your strength in faith. Knowing only time is powerful Seeing the petals unfold Stranded in a jammed road Watching the caterpillar transform Relations to grow and stand with time Wait for the results after training so hard A lesson that can never be taught One for each to experience … Continue reading Patience

Learning At Home

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In current conditions and challenges at health front many a times kids are fully dependent on learning from home , though the online learning has kept them connected with learning certain steps need to be followed to keep this learning stress free both for the learner and the tutor and to continue on a routine … Continue reading Learning At Home

Inactivity

Those dormant stars Pigeons staring from far Unused shoes on the rack Books with dust and broken specks Clothes on windows of the shop Lanterns hanging post festive times Those stubborn coffee stains on the table Cobwebs hanging on the wall So much of inactivity Showing apathy Lacking mobility Carrying inertia of those moving times. … Continue reading Inactivity

Break

A break to achieve the unusual A break to find the lost connection A break to move away from regular patterns A break to make place for new transformation A break to slowdown to make corrections A break to check for cluttered corners A break to clear those hoarded boxes A break to observe the … Continue reading Break

Everytime I reach the end

Everytime I reach the end I am ready to give up on it I take a breath of calmness Let the next day bring in the newness I cant be so sure of the journey May be its just a stop with a u turn in waiting I just let the moment pass , let … Continue reading Everytime I reach the end

Homemaker

Not an easy title to settle for Not something one dreams of. A connection with the soul A responsibility to become the whole. No appreciation or achievements to flaunt No felicitation or certification to share around. Every pointer asks of your value How are you contributing being nothing of value How should I tell , … Continue reading Homemaker

Aware

I cant speak always sweet dipped in honey Sometimes I will speak with honesty Not to let anybody down Nor is it going to bring back time. A word of a caution from part of my experience So that you are aware Your choices are not clouded You live a life with a fair chance … Continue reading Aware

Connections

I dont try ,so hard to connect I know, we are already connected. Each one of them who feels for me I can feel their love. Each one of them who sees through me Knows I have touched their soul. Each one of them who knows what I am trying to make Just have wishes … Continue reading Connections

Friend And Foe

Why do I need a foe if I have a friend like you How could have you cheated your heart that still loves me How could your soul make peace when you decided to break it How will anybody trust you when you are so good at breaking one I was better with my foes … Continue reading Friend And Foe

No matter

No matter how slow one is making progress. No matter how small their contribution is. No matter how less you feel their efforts is. No matter what positions they hold. No matter how different their journey is than yours. Respect each one of them Each small little drop Adds up to the ocean. What seems … Continue reading No matter

I have a dream

I have a dream I want to leave a world behind Our kids can live peacefully in. I want to make my part To be the change I wish to see. My words wont hold down anybody Just help them believe in the light within. I want awareness to spread so far Ignorance can't create … Continue reading I have a dream

Humility

We dont grow to make ourselves capable of judging We grow to show others how can you make it. We dont put our trophies to boost our ego We want our trophies to inspire you to have yours. We dont want you to follow our track We want you to be as original as you … Continue reading Humility

Judgmental

Being judgmental : Oh you be aware We have our eyes on you We are checking your every move We will tell you when you dont meet our standards You be wary , alert and nervous You should be bothered how well you stand up to our expectations We are self approved rule makers We … Continue reading Judgmental